A Different Kind of Date
By Sarah Roberts
Accessibility
Getting around
Johnny's was difficult. All of the tables are very close together, and
maneuvering between them proved to be a challenge. We ended up sitting at bar
so we wouldn't have to slide into a low sitting booth table, or risk being too
in the way sitting at a free chair table in the center of the restaurant.
Getting to the bar was a pain having to play dodge ball between moving chairs,
running children, and quick moving waitresses. Once seated, all was well.
Getting through the theater was almost effortless. The hallways are large, the
rows have enough space to be easily maneuvered, the seats were far enough apart
that we could sit comfortably, and the stairs were shallow enough that they
were not a hassle to walk up.
There was quite a
bit of activity at Johnny's. The restaurant was rather full, little kids were
running every way, and waitresses were swiftly walking back and forth from
tables to the kitchen. We were confined to our seats so as to not risk any
accidental tripping of ourselves or anyone else. Activity at the movies was
minimal. We arrived a little late to the movie, so the hallways were fairly
empty and everyone had already found their seats. We did not have any trouble
with people walking across us, so we sat comfortably the whole movie. Aside
from the stress of the movie, that is.
Personal Space
We did not have
much personal space at lunch. Everything was crowded and there were a lot of
people there. We had a good amount of personal space at the theater. we were
not squished together and it was uncomfortable for Cody to sit with his leg
out.
Legibility
Legibility was
not an issue for us where we were.
Adaptability
Those around us
at the restaurant were not so great at adapting. I feel like adapting and
common courtesy go hand in hand. When I see someone who is handicapped, I try
to help in whatever I can help. At the restaurant, there was no one trying to
corral their kids so we could walk by, there was no "pardon me" from
the waitresses as they rushed by hoping not to mull us down. The folks at the
movie theater were great! Everyone was kind and made sure to make room as we
walked by.
Meaning
This was an
interesting experience for the two of us. Typical hang outs have never been an
issue, and for the first time I had to be conscious of what he could and could
not do. We had to chose our seat at the restaurant based on where Cody could
get to and sit comfortably, and we did the same at the theater. It was
interesting to see how a small handicap changed a simple hang out.
Conclusion
Looking at a
public outing from the view of "how accessible is wherever we are
going" changed my view on going out. There's a lot more that goes into
where you go and what you when you have to think about how you'll be able to
get around and be comfortable in those places. It was definitely and
interesting change in perspective.


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